Garlic Gemach

From: S. in Israel Dear Rabbi, I volunteer in a used clothing center (“gemach”) open in the mornings. There is one woman who comes in every week with a very strong smell of garlic. Since we are in a basement and don’t have adequate ventilation, it is very disturbing to all present. We sometimes spray[…]

Free to be Me

From: Alberto in Israel Dear Rabbi, I’m Israeli but not Jewish. My parents are Brazilian. I’m religious and I keep mitzvot like every Jew. But I’m not Orthodox or Reform, I just keep the mitzvot in my life in my own way. I never wanted to become a “member” of a “community” in the way[…]

Kiss on the Head

From: Martha in Pennsylvania Dear Rabbi, My question for you is very short and sweet. I have seen a lot of rabbis kissing young children on their foreheads. Is there a reason for that? I had a number of dreams where I was kissing someone’s forehead and received some interpretation, but I would like to[…]

Her and Hers

From: Anonymous Dear Rabbi, I understand that the Torah prohibits certain specific physical contact between two men, and that other forms of physical intimacy between men are also forbidden as a result of this. In my mind this is similar to prohibited unions between men and women where a specific act is explicitly forbidden, and[…]

Igniting the Flame

From: Alan in MA Dear Rabbi, I go to a small college with relatively few Jewish resources. While I am not yet fully observant, I am interested in Orthodoxy and read and listen to material that is taught and studied in Orthodox circles. When I talk with other students about what I’m learning, I find[…]

Freedom and Assimilation

From: Zev Schwartz Dear Rabbi, Many Jews heap praises on America as being “A country where Jews can live free from daily fear of persecution; A country where the constitution protects us with freedom of speech, press and religion; The safest country, except for Israel, for Jews to reside in; Without this country most of[…]

Love

From: Barbara in England Dear Rabbi, The religious form of dating seems somewhat artificial and contrived. I mean, how can two people who are “set up” unnaturally, actually fall in love. The lack of romance and infatuation would seem to doom the couple to a marriage of boredom. Thank you for your answer. Dear Barbara,[…]