Mothers-in-Law Know Best

From: Anonymous Dear Rabbi, I don’t particularly get along with my daughter-in-law. I have heard that the Torah predicts that this is normally the case. I was wondering if the Torah also teaches how to rectify this situation with practical advice how to improve the relationship between mothers and daughters-in-law. If you choose to publish[…]

Trial Trio

From: Ian in Toronto Dear Rabbi, Why does G‑d try the righteous? And why did G‑d try Abraham with 10 different trials, culminating in the command to sacrifice Isaac? Dear Ian, Our Sages asked, Why did G‑d try Abraham? They answered with three parables: To what may the matter be compared? To a seller of[…]

Lunar Liturgy

From: Peter Merker in NYC Dear Rabbi, Where does the halacha for Kiddush Levana (blessing for the New Moon) come from, and have there been any Torah authorities who were opposed to it? Dear Peter Merker, The source for blessing the new moon comes from the Talmud (Sanhedrin 42a). To my knowledge, there have never[…]

Pondering Penitence

From: Andrew Lappin in Glencoe, IL Dear Rabbi, It is stated, “repentance was created before the universe itself; that repentance was a pre-condition of Creation”. If so, how is it that G‑d is so intensely angered at the Jews for the sin of the golden calf? Or was that just for “show”? Furthermore, how is[…]

Honesty Best Policy

From: Nancy in Madison Dear Rabbi, Is honesty always the best policy? It seems that sometimes being honest may be harmful. Dear Nancy, Honesty is certainly a very good policy. Our Sages (Avot 1:18) teach that truth is one the three foundations upon which the world endures, together with justice and peace, without which there[…]