True Extramarital Soulmate

From: Name Withheld Dear Rabbi, I have been shomer Shabbat (Sabbath-observant) for 6 years, keep kosher, taharat haMishpacha (family purity), and every day I pray, recite tehillim (Psalms) and study Torah. I’m 40 years old, have two teenage children, a good husband, and until 2 months ago this was enough. But I met a young[…]

L’Chaim – To Life!

From: Sam in Portland Dear Rabbi, When Jews drink alcohol together, especially wine, they say l’chaim; What is the source of the custom to say l’chaim? Thank you. Dear Sam, Despite the spiritually elevating potential of wine (or perhaps because of its great potential), mankind hasn’t fared well with the vine. According to one opinion[…]

The Red String

From: Debra Dear Rabbi, Is it true that according to Kabbala or possibly the Zohar that a person who wears a red string will be protected from the evil eye or evil forces?  When did all of this begin? What is the meaning of wearing a red string? What kind of a red string are[…]

Heads Up

From: Sidney Davis Dear Rabbi, How is one to understand the wearing of the kippa (skullcap-yarmulke) in light of the following from the Targum? On Judges 5:2 the Targum explains: “The wise men sit in the synagogues… with the head uncovered to teach the people the words of the law”, and on Judges 5:9 it[…]

Wigs and Idolatry

From: T.R. in Belgium Dear Rabbi, Could you please enlighten me on the controversy surrounding wearing wigs made of human hair from India, and also is it permissible to continue wearing one. Thank you in advance, T.R. Dear T.R., The rabbis who oppose the use of Indian-hair wigs are not just splitting hairs. The root[…]

Sleepless Shavuot

From: Sam in Chicago Dear Rabbi, This is my first time experiencing Shavuot in a yeshiva environment. I’m told that everybody stays up all night studying Torah, which sounds interesting, but at the same time I’m a little wary of doing so. In school I once had a paper due the next day that I[…]