Olives and Memory

From: Yehoshua Dear Rabbi, Is there any problem with eating olives? Is there any need to eat olives with olive oil? I have heard that there is some problem with eating olives and memory. Is there a source for all this? Dear Yehoshua, The Talmud (Horayot 13b) says, “There are five things which cause one[…]

Hard Act to Follow

From: Anonymous Dear Rabbi, A friend of mine and myself lead learning sessions and talks to students who are newly interested in Judaism. I feel a certain sensitivity about who goes first or who seems to get a better reaction from the audience. I know that competitiveness can play a role in increasing Torah knowledge,[…]

Unfit Tefillin

From: Michael Dear Rabbi, I received a pair of tefillin from my grandfather (of blessed memory) when I became a bar mitzva about ten years ago, and now I’ve started wearing them regularly. Since he was a religious man, do I have to check that they’re kosher, or can I rely on the fact that[…]

Conceded Conceit

From: Gary Dear Rabbi, I find that I have a problem with arrogance. Is there anything you can tell me that might help me work on this shortcoming? Dear Gary, Interestingly enough, in your very question you admit to being flawed. Isn’t that humbling enough? A man once went to the Kotsker Rebbe with a[…]

Bad Jew

From: D. Dear Rabbi, Am I a bad Jew if I eat bacon, don’t go to temple very often, actually only on the major holidays (I do celebrate Passover, and try to keep it)? Religion just isn’t a very big part of my American Jewish life. Let me know, thanks! Dear D., I don’t know.[…]

Wrongly Religious?

From: Allen Dear Rabbi, Is it acceptable that a Jewish man or woman become observant because of their desire to marry someone they know that is already observant? Is there any problem with the possibility that they might not be sincere? Dear Allen, If the person is Jewish, he or she is obligated to be[…]